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Sunday.

What a day! It started out steady then by 11ish all hell broke loose, the system went down which meant no smart shop. And my checkout broke to add insult to injury. The queues were horrendous. People were either really nice and trying to be supportive because they could see we were up against it, or silent when you said hello, nothing. I let it go over my head and acted as if they were the only ones in the queue. I chatted to those willing, and those who didn't want to speak I left alone, being polite, but not engaging or trying to in conversation. It worked out fine. 

Tracy didn't get her break by 2.30pm, so I shut my till and took her off, she needed to take meds, eat and use the loo. I know how that feels, so once she'd been she nipped onto the one I'd been using and we plowed on. I looked at the amount of people waiting and thought there would be no chance of getting away on time, but I was wrong, we managed to pull it off somehow, special shout out to Heather who even though she wasn't actually in work, came and took the hangers etc from both me and Jodie and tided up a bit, which was a big help.

We made both buses, and caught up with the little Asian guy that we see at the bus stop. We haven't seen him for a few weeks so he had lots to say, bless him. He kept trying to teach Kev to say Happy New Year in Vietnamese for some strange reason. Nice bloke if a little weird. 

Anyhow, we got home and I went for a shower while Kev did the party snacks, we had that bottle of red that Sue gave us last week, zero alcohol would you believe, but it tasted like the real deal. We were both shattered and it wasn't long before we went to bed. Waking up when all the fireworks went off. Kev got up, and I got up after a bit, but we both needed the rest. When I think back to the days at the pub how we would be open 24 hours on a NYE and work through to 7am, I don't know how we did it. Mind you, we were both 15 years younger than we are now...  Says a lot. Right, Happy New Year everyone. My phone isn't connecting properly, and I'm not able to send or receive calls or texts, so if you've sent one other than on Facebook and I haven't replied, that's why. 

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Friday.

Hair day. Early appointment and not the full works, just roots and cut. 

Looks lovely as always. So glad I was recommended to try Blu, Amanda does a great job.

Charlotte nipped round later on, then it was an early night ready for work the next day.

Saturday. 

Started off calm, ended up really bloody hectic. We aren't even shut. 

Saw a couple of my regulars, and picked up a Christmas club card to start collecting for next year. The points we saved up were disappointing this year, didn't make much of a dent into the bill, so this year we are going to chuck a tenner each month on the card then add that to the points we will have to spend by then. That should cover what we need and then some. It's a plan at least. 

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Thursday.

A wet grotty morning so I made shower bombs and my pages for my dyalog...

I soon dropped back into making the shower bombs like I'd never stopped. For those of you thatdont know what they are, you place them on the floor of your shower tray just where the stream of warm water hits and allow the essential oils to escape as the bomb dissolves. I used to make bath bombs and shower bombs once upon a time, but I stopped because paper crafting took over. 

But I fancied making a few for myself and Charlotte.

I really enjoyed it and I made some menthol ones for me, which will help with my blocked nose. In fact just making them helped a great deal, leaving them in the bedroom to dry overnight really helped too, so much so that I slept better and could breathe again easier. That in turn made the cold easier to cope with.  

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Wednesday.

Wash day as normal, I have started with a cold, thanks no doubt to the  person at work coming in when they were poorly, great! I doused myself up with meds, and wrapped up warm and cosy. 

We had a more in depth clear out and found out all my bath bomb instruments so that I can make some shower melts tomorrow.

So it was a curled up on the sofa kind of day. 

Charlotte cameround and we chatted played some games and had a laugh. 

Later on Kev and I watched the Super Mario Bros. Shouldn't have bothered. Pretty pictures and familiar sounds from the games, but really not worth watching. 

I went to bed around 10.30 pm feeling really grotty, smothered myself in Vics and tried to rest. 

      

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Tuesday. Boxing Day.

We woke up at Sue's and went down to breakfast, bacon sarnies, nom nom... We had coffee and chatted, before heading back home. We wanted to get back for Willow as she'd been on her own for 24 hours, we knew she would be safe, but I don't like to leave her too long, and it's not like auntie Charlotte could pop round as normal as she was away. 

We got home, roads were a tad busier than the day before, but not manic. 

Kev put lunch on, and I fussed Willow lots, fed her and got her comfy, she was very happy to have us home and she got oodles of fuss... 

We sorted out more of the gifts we received from Sue and Pete, they bought us two tins of mulled cider tea ( non alcohol) from Bird and Blend that we love... So Kev made us a pot. 

We had a nice relaxed day.

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 Christmas Day. Monday 

We got up at 8 am, which is about our usual time. 

Showered and opened gifts. Obviously didn't take as long as normal because we had mostly given each other the bigger gifts with the exception of my beautiful new loungefly backpack. A Halloween one I'd fallen in love with, and had missed out on, but Kev had tracked down for me. 

I had some lovely gifts from friends, Trish and Sarah with their usual quirky style, Charlotte adding to my NBC collection, and a fabulous collage book from Hanna Haspe, which was a complete surprise. Stamps and spooky photos from the lovely Joyce. 

We set to and put all the stuff in their new homes, before Pete collected us.

As always we had a fantastic day with Sue and Pete, we never take for granted their invite to spend the day with them. Going so long without family to share the day with ( and actually enjoy it!) Makes us really look forward to the following one. 

The dinner was gorgeous as always, the company was fun, despite three abortive attempts at playing new board  games, next year I'm thinking a less complicated quiz would be more appropriate. We watched the Pottery Throw Down and the final Ghosts episode. Now I know how the Friends fan base felt when they aired the last one! We know it's time to pull the plug, but we still just want it to go on forever. But I think it might be a box set buy so we can re watch from the start. 

The day was relaxing and after the full on work days we had before it much needed. 

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Saturday. 23rd

Manic first off, got fed up with people telling me it was busier the day before... I wasn't there, do you want me to feel guilty about that? Because I don't, this is my 44th Christmas at Sainsbury's, I've done enough over my time, seen fights over carrots, had a frozen turkey thrown at me, reduced pork pies and thrown them out the doors to waiting customers to catch. All the things. It calmed down later, and I got off the checkouts in time to get the buses home OK.

Sunday. Christmas Eve

Again manic, mostly happy people, couple of grinches, first thing, the happy mood deteriorated as it got into afternoon. You could tell people had been out to pub, thinking they are being humorous. And then sarky, and then mildly aggressive. Lots of younger ones trying their luck with no ID for booze. But Tracy Milano and Michelle Illet made sure I got off on time to get buses home, Tracy also made sure Kev got away on time. 

Home and chill out time with nibbles and drinkies...

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The weather is awful at the moment and so Kev nipped into the village while I stayed here. 

I cracked on with a couple of projects like more of the globes and prepping pages in my dyalog so that all I need to do is write in them on the actual days. 

Charlotte came round with Ian's help. We made her comfortable and we watched TV, played board games on the Xbox and chatted. She's getting around on crutches ok and is doing well all things considered. I think she will be fine so long as she follows Dr's orders now and once she is back to work.

Friday.

Another grim day weather wise. Kev went to Heron for the last few bits we will need, while I sat and waited for a parcel to arrive that didn't come. DPD driver has delivered it to the wrong address. They aren't honest enough to say it isn't theirs. Oh well, getting a full refund from the company I purchased the item from next week. Bloody useless these couriers. Early night as a full shift tomorrow. Two more to do then relax... 

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Wednesday.

Wash day. Thankfully, no hassle. 

I had my letter with the results of my diabetic eye scan. All clear! It's always a relief when I get that letter, and now I can go every two years now. I hate going, as its my biggest fear is losing my sight, I would rather die than go blind. And I don't just mean that as a throw away comment. I really mean it. But I go because detecting stuff early is always better than leaving them until its too late.

Charlotte went for her knee op today and we were worried about her until we heard everything was OK. No procedure is "simple" or "routine" people shouldn't dismiss them as such. Every little invasion into our bodies is a big deal. It annoys me as much as someone dismissing what's wrong with you with, "There's always someone worse off than you" Bollocks! What happens to you as an individual is very important. It just means they don't think you're as important as you thought they did, or they just have no empathy. So before those words come out of your mouth, stop and actually listen to the person concerned. Rant over. 

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Tuesday.

Up bright and early to go to Sainsbury's in Castle Marina to get the big shop before Christmas, we wanted it done so we don't have to leave the village until work at the weekend. It's too peopley out there... 

Anyway, we got most of what we wanted, doing smart shop, as the cashiers there are not very friendly or helpful. We decided to get an uber back. The logic was this, if we bought stuff for lunch as in a carpet picnic as we call it, the amount we saved on eating out would pay for the ride home. 

I must admit I've never used an uber before but I was very impressed. Very quick service, great that you have already paid, and a pleasant driver. It definitely saved Kev lugging stuff back down by the canal and on the bus. 

Later on I had booked Dyan's stripy tree class as I've never done that one before, and throughly enjoyed it. We laughed, cried, learned new ( to me) techniques. Wore pj's and silly hats and I wore my flashy bauble necklace. Not forgetting sang Dolly Partons Hard Candy Christmas... I shall definitely do it again next year! 

It's amazing that the pandemic made Dyan do these classes online, as before I would never have had the chance to join in them at all, so it was good for one thing, maybe two, as that how I started my dyalog journey. 

 

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Saturday.

Not much to say other than the shop was manic, and the buses haywire at both ends on the way home. Fed up with it really, but not much we can do, but dreading next weekend already. Home and an early night.

Sunday.

Much the same, more buses delayed, and even trams not running as they should. We ended up getting a taxi home because the bus was going to be so late that it made more sense to get home than hang around town. The town was busy, especially the ice rink and sky skate. 

Monday.

Kev was in work again extra, so me and Willow had a lie in after he had gone in. I did a few chores, caught up with my pages in my Dyalog and made a few cards, I always forget someone. So they're all done now. 

The post came with the parcels they couldn't deliver on Saturday. All gifts to go into the sack for Christmas morning. 

My leg was playing up today, my right one this time,  some sharp pains in the ankle that made me catch my breath every so often. Guess I've just got to learn to live with both legs hurting at one time or another. 

So plenty of cuddles with Willow helped as always. She is such a good girl and always up for love and purrs are healing ( I believe they are anyway) I swear that's why I healed quicker.

Kev left work early as he wasn't needed as long but again he had to battle late buses so it took him awhile to get home. 

We watched the new Indiana Jones movie, The Dial of Destiny 

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Friday.

Kevs Birthday.

We went for lunch with Charlotte to The Manvers to celebrate. Once again we had a lovely lunch. 

They have it decorated for Christmas very nicely and sat us by the tree... Kev really enjoyed himself, and the waitress even bought him a rum in honour of his Birthday, how nice!

We went to Sainsbury's afterwards and got food for the weekend and sandwiches for tea so Kev had a complete day off. 

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Wednesday.

Wash day. 

I set to and batch made Walter. Then I made a few things like a snow globe, and a card or two... 

Great fun, bar a bit of swearing! Tim's small dies are beautiful but can be a little frustrating to put together. But I do think batch making is the way to go... 

Thursday.

Although it was dull, we went on the bus, Kev using his bus pass! To the embankment and then the walk down to Lady Bay. Plenty of rest stops and a hot chocolate at Greggs and a sit down in there to boot. We started at Hobbycraft. Must say I get more and more disappointed with them. Nothing out of the ordinary and apart from their own brand basic tools and packs nothing new and exciting. At one time you couldn't drag me away, now sometimes I can't be arsed to go in... 

We went in the food warehouse to find those ginger oaty biscuits zero sugar ones by gullon. And yay! They had them... 

There is a one below where pound stretcher was now, so we popped in there, got some more candy cane style baubles for the tree, and a gumball machine that we have a joint project planned for... Watch this space for updates... 

Got home as the rain started to come down, and luckily the post came after we got home with my set of books I'd ordered from Waterstones. The Mayfair Witches, as they were some of the ones I couldn't replace on kindle after having to sell them when we left the pub. After watching the series on I player I wanted to re read them again. So I got all three for £15 brand new with free p&p. So when Kev went in to watch the football I sat with Willow on my knee and started reading The Witching Hour... Old books you've read before are like seeing an old friend. A gentle reminder of the parts you've forgot, and bring back some very poignant memories. Like the last time I read this one was one winter when we were living at Grafton Road in Burton. In those days I spent a lot of evenings on my own, as Kev was on nights, and would curl up on the sofa with Rouble and Molochai and read for hours. Both beautiful cats, sadly gone but not forgotten. None of them are... We've had some amazing cats, all with their own unique personalities... 

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Monday.

Kev was at work extra. I settled back down and me and Willow cuddled up and drifted back off to sleep until 8ish. I got up showered and dressed, getting my dyalog up to date was my first task, along with having breakfast feeding Willow and washing pots.

Charlotte popped over later to keep me company. Poor lass is struggling and in a lot of pain. I'm hoping they get her in for her knee op soon. 

My Diecember Walter came and I'm happy to say he is so cute and I love him. I can see a production line coming on... 

Tuesday 

We saw Pete and Sue for lunch at The Manvers, and very nice it was. The food was really good. Its really thanks to Jason and Cathy that we started going in there. But I'm quite impressed with the food and service. 

The next time we see Sue and Pete will be Christmas Day... Kev has already bought the desert, we only have the fresh to buy now. I can't wait, we always have a lovely time there, nice and relaxed and fun. 

We got back and I finished my first card using Walter and I have plans for more... 

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Saturday.

The decent in to madness that is work. 

Big orders and queues at each till. 

But it made the day go by really fast, and most people were in good humour. 

The Calverton whizzed past us as we went to crossing. It was early and had no intention of stopping so we got the 58, that meant we missed the 33 and had to wait for the Cotgrave. 

Sunday.

Another hectic day, It was hard to get everyone out.Again big orders, lots of people taking advantage of the offers on gifting and wine. The clothing stunt finished on Saturday but there were still plenty of takers for it though... 

The Cotgrave was 10 mins late so obviously we were late home. 

Kev's in tomorrow, so he went to bed fairly early. Silly boy has agreed to do all the Monday's now until Christmas... Sooner him than me... 

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Friday.

Diabetic eye scan. Yuk, hate it beyond words... Glad it's over. Lauren kindly took us down in the car, waited for us, nipped us to the post office and kept me company as Kev went and posted stuff, because I couldn't see properly. Then bought us home. 

Very kind of her, bless her, and much appreciated by me. It helped a lot as was a bit keyed up.  

I got home, my vision didn't comeback properly for about six hours. The stuff they used has made them very dry, or dryer than they were. Glad it's done with and hopefully the results will come back OK... So I did bugger all once I got home. Just chilled out... 

Big news, Kev got his bus pass today and can use it right away! It's a big deal, it will save him £915 a year to start with for not having to buy a saver card for Trent Barton. Then £15/20 a week for NCT buses and Trams... He'll notice a big difference... I'll notice a big difference not having to loan him the £915 annually to buy the saver card, which he paid me back monthly... Plus now, he can get any bus, even the 33 without having to pay a bean! 

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Wednesday. 

Wash day. Another heavy frost and really cold. So Kev did the washing and hunted for the missing decorations. We eventually found everything apart from Jack and Sally's hats. God knows where they are hidden. 

Kev went down to Heron to get a few things and found two new santa hats for them. We will probably find the old ones now. Anyhow, these new ones look OK if not. 

I got some more cards done and caught up in my dyalog. As well as some chores. 

Thursday

Despite it raining, I hadn't left the house since Saturday, so we got ready and went to Asda at forest fields on the tram. Straight there and shopped, then back on the tram, and then back home. We managed to get quite a bit done that we needed including batteries, so that all our light up decorations do exactly that for the few weeks they are up. 

I finished my cards once we got home and we wrapped the postal gifts we need to get in the post this next week. 

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. Monday.

Kev was at work, luckily it rained overnight and washed the snow away, some still clinging on but not anywhere important like the roads, so he got buses OK. I had loads to do,  finishing prepping my new dyalog for this month. I also wanted to write my cards, but I didn't get very far. I'll do them tomorrow. Time flies and it was soon time for Kev to get home. 

Tuesday.

Still raining, so we stayed home, plus Kev needed to rest up from the day before. We didn't really need much in the way of shopping and what we did need Kev got from a walk into the village. I got my cards written, and Kev bought stamps so I could post them tomorrow or Thursday. 

I need to make more cards to hand out here so I'll start those while Kev does the washing. I've ordered some warm winter tread boots. Since the operation on my right that leg feels the cold. So along with thermal socks if I have fur lined boots it should stop some of the pain the cold causes. 

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Saturday.

Again bitterly cold, I layered up, tights, socks, thermal cami, t shirt and Christmas jumper. Work trousers and big padded coat, ear muffs and fingerless gloves. 

It was cold on the checkouts but, luckily it was mega busy so I didn't have chance to think about it. 

We made the Calverton by the skin of our teeth, and walked down the hill in the hopes of catching the 33. We did, but again, by a hair! 

We got home, Kev put jacket potatoes in while we got changed and thawed out. Hot mulled cider tea. 

We watched another couple Mayfair Witches episodes and then an early night ready for work.

Sunday.

The alarm went off, and we got up and dressed. Kev opened the curtains to find a blanket of snow. We had breakfast and did all the usual routine before work. Only then did Kev check the bus times. Only to discover that not only were the buses in Cotgrave not running, but the NCT weren't either. 

Snow day it was, Kev called in work and told them we couldn't get. The last time Kev and Charlotte got stuck in town and Kev fell, looking for a taxi to get them home, found one who charged them the earth, and then refused to take them any further than the Shepherds leaving them to walk all that way to the village. They got home around 8.30 pm. Not willing to risk me falling again, or the weather to get worse leaving us stranded, I'd rather lose a day's pay, and a possible reprimand. 

Luckily we had food in thinking we'd be at work, so we changed and did the indoor Christmas decorations. 

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Friday. 

Really bitterly cold with a heavy frost which made me careful as we went for the bus because of falling. We were heading into town to me Karen to give her our present and have lunch. 

The Roebuck was heaving but she had snagged us a table in the back room. 

We had lunch and chatted, eventually we left around three, but only because of getting the bus home. It was lovely to see her and spend time with her. 

In the evening once home and showered, Kev put Mayfair Witches on iplayer. We've been waiting to see this since last year. I've read the books, Lasher, The Witching hour and Taltos. 

Hopefully if the first episode is anything to go by it should be good... 

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Thursday 

Big delivery day, Argos bought our new air fryer, early too... Then the cat clock came, which took a bit of time to set up, it's done now and I love it. We started some of the decor, but I think the bulk of it will get done Monday. 

I can't believe it's December already. We have a candle advent calendar to start and I have a new dyalog to start. 

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Tuesday.

After a chilled out and relaxed Monday, we contacted Sue to find out if and where we were meeting.

We met them at Lloyd's in the city. Sue had some shopping to do, and we thought as we were in the city we may as well get a few bits too...

It was lovely to see them both, as it always is. I never take our meet ups for granted. Pete had been poorly for a couple of weeks, but there are so many bugs and viruses about I'm not surprised. 

City was heaving, and I was glad to get home. I did find a quirky little candle stick in TK Maxx though, it reminds me of one of Dyan's stamps... picture below... 

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Sunday.

Another bitterly cold day. 

Busy from the get go at work, and large orders coming through. Lots of booze and gifting, the descent in to madness begins. City was mental too, the Winter Wonderland looked packed with skaters, shoppers and the like... 

Definitely think it's time to stay out of the centre until after Christmas now, obviously having to go into work means we have to pass through on at least two days a week, but shopping we will stick to the retail parks this side of the divide as much as we can. 

Willow instantly wanted cuddles as we got in, and once I was changed and had eaten I obliged... Bless her, she is a little fuss pot... 

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Saturday.

Bitterly cold start. I wore a coat, my fleece under that and even earmuffs. Tights under my trousers and fingerless gloves. The earmuffs worked a treat, if I wear hat my hair just sticks to my head after I take it off because its so fine. But they keep my ears warm without flattening my hair. I kept my gloves and fleece on for on the shop floor as it was so cold down there. 

The shop isn't any better than it was when we broke up... It looks a tip and there's no flow or sense to where they've put stuff. In the many years I've worked for them as a company, I've never felt so embarrassed to work for a branch. I don't know why they didn't shut, get it done and reopen. Working round us isn't great, and customers hate the changes. But hey, I'm not in charge and the powers that be make the decisions ( but not always for the best). As Christmas draws ever closer I'm dreading it, a tough trading period as it is, combined with chaos and change... Wonderful, not... 

We got home to soup and hot mulled spice ribena, a favourite of ours in the cold weather. Lots of warm cuddles with Willow, the fake fire on ( it might not give off any heat, but watching the flames makes you feel warmer)

A nice relaxed evening watching TV and a fairly early night after a 5.30am start... Nothing better.

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Friday. 

I had to go to the Doctors first thing. Another blood test, I swear they have more of my blood than I do... Vampires... 

Anyhow after that Charlotte came round and we went to Bridgeford to have coffee at that 200° coffee house. And very nice it was too. We nipped into M&S for a few bits, and Kev wanted a festive bake from Greggs... 

We got back and watched I'm a Celebrity with Charlotte until she was caught up.

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Thursday.

We got up and got ready to shop for the weekend food. This time we got the 33 and went to Gamston to Morrisons. Not too busy and we got what we needed. A few ignorant shoppers as always in there, walking into you, reaching over you, and blocking aisles. There and M&S in Bridgeford are worst. 

Anyway that done we got back and put it all away... 

I was thinking as you do, about being thankful, being as it was Thanksgiving Day for my US friends, how many times are we truly grateful for what and who we have in our lives? I know lives are busy, and I'm as guilty of it as anyone. But we really are lucky in lots of ways. Kev and I are lucky because we have a permanent home, and we actually like where we live, yes it has a few drawbacks transport wise, but we live somewhere quiet and very near to woodlands and countryside. We have our health, yes we both have our niggles, but overall if we look after ourselves we can do pretty much what we want to. My mobility isn't as good as it was, granted, but I've worked hard to get as much movement back as I can. Thanks to determined efforts from me. I'm grateful for having Kev by my side to help and encourage as much as he does. 

I'm also grateful for the family and friends we have. Some have always walked this path of ours alongside us, some are more recent to our journey. All are very welcome. And most importantly I am grateful for the chance to look after and love Willow... She is so adorable and loving... 

So, stop for a moment and think about what you are thankful for... You'll find what you have far outweighs what you don't...

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Tuesday. 

A wet drizzly day, but we still went out. I had a few things I needed shower gel, tea tree oil, and eye drops. 

City was very busy, and getting close to the time that we stop going in under any circumstances. As it was, they didn't have the baubles we wanted, good old Amazon came to rescue again. Kev spotted a T shirt in Next and they didn't have his size, so, I ordered it him when we got back. He can have it for his Birthday. We did manage to get the festive room spray though from the actual shop. 

We had tacos for lunch, pleased that Taco Bell now to plant based mince to chose from and they were lovely. 

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Sunday.

Lovely to stay in bed past 8, I got up and showered as we were going out for Lunch to Streza. Also I had a lady coming to buy my Big Shot plus machine. I found some spare new plates for it and Kev dug out some A4 embossing folders that I won't be able to use any more. So she came about 11.30 am and gave me more than I was asking for because  of the extras. 

That done we headed out for the walk to the village to Streza for Sunday lunch. 

First off Kev spotted a mobility scooter that he recognised as his from Number 4! Bugger! 

Luckily he was nearly done, and he bought us a coffee, he wouldn't take no for an answer. Like Kev says, no one talks to him now Jane is gone, so he has to try and buy his friends now. I'd feel sorry for him, if he hadn't been such a nosey nasty git when we first moved here and he tried very hard to get us evicted. I don't forget or forgive, I don't have dementia and I'm not Jesus... Seems like no one else here is either, as apart from hello and basic politeness, no one in the community gives him the time of day. He is now reaping what he and Jane sowed. Being a Hitler with the laundry keys, reporting everything and anything, from putting rubbish in the "wrong" bins to not tidying the garden, or in our case having decorations up for Halloween, which backfired actually because we are the only ones paying full rent and council tax in this area, so we were told that we were within our rights to put up outdoor decorations. 

Anyhow, the actual meal was gorgeous. Really good value, well cooked, served quickly and we would definitely go again if we are at home on a Sunday. 

We walked back and settled down to relax... A lovely day away from work... 

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Saturday.

So lovely being off. Woke up naturally and did exactly what we planned. Nothing. We booked the weekend off because the lights were being switched on in Bridgeford and last year we got stuck in traffic until 7pm, so, booking it off meant we didn't have that problem. It gave us chance to finish the Christmas gift shopping, and book a Sunday roast at Streza.I got more cards done and the tags finished. Bliss... 

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Friday.

Hair day. I really was ready to get it done, I've gone a plummy red colour this time. But, I did have it cut slightly shorter as my next appointment won't be until after Christmas and I wanted it to look nice. 

When I got done we went for lunch at The Manvers, because when Charlotte and I went the other week Kev wasn't with us. 

Again the fish and chips were lovely and Kev had room for a pudding, so he had crumble... My plates came for my big shot foldaway, so the card and tag production can start again. 

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Thursday.

A dull start, but we braved it out down to Lady Bay to the Range and Hobbycraft. We got the last Christmas gift on the list, now all we need to do is wrap them. They're all in a huge Santa sack in bedroom, 

I was most disappointed in Hobbycraft their papercraft section is very poor at the moment. I needed new plates for my foldaway big shot. They had none. I ended up ordering some from Amazon.

It wasn't too bad a day weather wise, but I was more impressed by my walking, I managed nearly 8,000 with only one sit down for lunch. Mind you, I felt it by the time we got home and I rested up. 

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Tuesday. 

We went out to The Goose at Gamston with Sue and Pete, their treat. The food was lovely as it always is there, with good friendly service. 

They offered to take us to Morrisons after, so we could get some of the shopping we needed, and then bring us home after. 

We had a laugh, and to be honest it was nice to walk around a shop that's not being torn apart by a refit. 

We got home after and chilled out. I made a lot of cards yesterday so, I had a break today, and will start tags tomorrow.

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Sunday.

A cold start with a sprinkling of frost on the rooftops. 

We got lucky by getting the 58 before the 9am detour because of the Rememberance parade. So we got dropped off outside work. Winner!

Day started out slow, the parade etc stopping people coming to shop until later. Then all hell broke loose and we didn't stop until close. 

Day went quickly enough though because of it, and we made the earlier 58 as it was running late, so we got into town in bags of time. 

The Cotgrave turned up for once and we made it home in decent time. And double yay, we are now on holiday this week... Hopefully we can finish up the last of the Christmas present shopping, and I can get more of the cards and tags done this week... 

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Saturday.

Work. All good apart going home, we hit traffic, not knowing why it was so backed up. It soon came to light there was a protest march through the centre of Nottingham. Which was taking place and blocking certain areas of the city at different times. 

We couldn't get a tram as they were at that point walking down the tram lines. We had to walk down Beastmarket hill, alongside them. It felt pretty intimidating if I'm honest, and a little scary. Although they were peaceful enough, a large group of people all shouting at the same time in close proximity was unnerving to say the least. 

We consequently missed the 33, and just made the Cotgrave by the skin of our teeth... 

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Friday.

We made plans to meet up with Margaret Taylor and her Husband Robert. They were coming over to the theatre and staying over at The Premier Inn. 

We met them at the Railway station and we walked up to the Robuck, where we had drinks and they had breakfast. I loved the fact they had expresso martinis because its coffee... lol... 

We sat chatting and had a couple more drinkies before we went a walk round the Winter Wonderland. We ordered a mulled cider at the apres bar and we sat watching people skating in the skyskate...

It was lovely to see them both we haven't seen them since we left Burton. 

When we were homeless one night when I was having to do my late night and had no where to sleep because I couldn't get back to Kirkby where we living with friends, they kindly let me sleep there. I've never forgotten their kindness. 

We soon ran out of time as they had to check into their hotel, so we parted company. I hope we get to meet up again soon... 

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Tuesday.

We went to the city to start some of our Christmas shopping... 

We went to TK Maxx and Lush and Holland and Barrett. So a few got and a few ordered. And a few more to get including Willows... We had lunch at Popeyes I just had the chicken wrap. 

We got home and settled in for a cosy night in.

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Sunday.

Busy work day that went well, but that's where it ends. The 58 bus was late, so it made it touch and go for Kev to nip to the shops. But in the end it was to no avail because the bus to Cotgrave didn't show up for an hour and a half. We got to five minutes into the wait and got up and headed for a taxi. It cost us £24 together home but worth every penny, as if we had waited we would not have got home until 7.30pm. As it was we walked in at 5.45... 

Monday.

Kev took the outside decorations down apart from the hanging basket which will stay up until the Christmas one goes up in December... 

I've finally started my Christmas cards, so that I can enjoy making them at my own pace... I watched Tim do his his holiday hoopla video where he mixes old and new and dies together, which made me do something similar myself... 

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Friday.

Kev went into work extra. So I woke yp partially went the alarm went off and while he got ready, but I snuggled back down with Willow and we both nodded off untilaelround 8am. I got up and dressed, because I was expecting Ian with the Aldi shopping. I hoovered and started to sort out my craft area, ready for the weekend. We've put the air con units out the way now. One is under my desk, the other in the bedroom behind the tiered trolley.

I got showered and changed ready for Charlotte coming round at 11, we were off to the Manvers for lunch. And very nice it was too, busy, bit the food and the service were spot on. The waitress spoke to Charlotte by name, but she hadn't got a clue who she was.

It's horrible when that happens, you sit there trying to figure out who the bloody hell it is... Its happened to me plenty of times... 

Apart from that we had a nice meal, and a gin, then got on the bus back to hours. 

We watched Coco on Disney plus apt as it was Day of the Dead on Thursday.

Saturday.

Joy of joys it was back toß work, It wasn't bad, just buzsy... It rained constantly and I was very surprised when we got off the 33 and there was fireworks going off on East Moor...

The display isn't on at the welfare until Sunday, so we can expect a lot more then. We got home had a chilli and watched throw away TV until about 10pm when we went for an early night...

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Wednesday.

Wash Day. We changed the sheets but not the Halloween bedding yet. We just put another Halloween set on ( as you do, as we have several )

Christmas bedding will not go on until December! We are not Disney World We don't do Christmas until then. The girls don't get hats until then.

Thursday.

Grotty weather day, lucky we only got the fringes of the storm, that battered other areas... 

We went to Sainsbury's for our food shop because Kev is at work on Friday. So we literally got food and were back on the next bus home. 

We spent the day sorting stuff out... I got rid of quite a bit. I will do more over the next couple of weeks. Now Halloween is over I've put a few bit of stuff on UK Halloween watch, let's see if I get any takers... 

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Halloween.

We had the most perfect day and evening.

We met Sue and Pete for lunch, we chose The Pit and Pendulum in the city, where better to eat drink and be scary in. Wonderfully sinister decor at any time of year, but made more so at Halloween... 

As we walked back afterwards with Sue and Pete we saw Ecto1 the Ghostbusters car, parked at the edge of market square, where they are sadly constructing Christmas already... They give a nod to Halloween with the inflatable monsters, but Christmas is more financially viable. I just think it's sad that they couldn't wait until the first of November to build an ice rink and cabins. But, that's just me. 

However, that didn't spoil our fun too much. We finished our shopping and headed home.

Kev put the pumpkin out and switched on the big plastic Jack Skellington pumpkin. Around 4.30ish we had our first trick or treaters, a cute little witch and her parents. Then another group of kids with their Dad I presume. All very polite and they had to be told to take handfuls of sweets each, rather than just grab. Lastly we had one pre teen girl, dressed as a vampires victim... Again, very polite... That was it, but we are off the beaten track, but more than last year... 

We settled down to watch another good old Tim Burton movie Dark Shadows... Classic, and played for laughs by the one and only Johnny Depp. We had a bottle of prosecco, and a chilled night together, like I said perfect really. 

I'll always miss Whitby at this time of year, but I know it would be too much for us now, and as much as it pains me to admit it I wouldn't manage to get about, and that would spoil it for both of us. 

We've heard from others that used to go up when we did that it isn't the same these days, there are more peacocks (pretend for a few days, that they are goth) rather than the hard core that used to go. Sure there are some, but, I think we went when it was more about being with like minded people, the music and meeting friends old and new. People like Trish and Sarah and Alice, who mean the world to us. And although we don't see them often these days, when we do it's like we've never been apart. 

Now the sort of day and evening we had today, plus the party on Saturday is more than enough. One thing is certain though, I will never not celebrate Halloween as long as I can at least. Even if I only put a plastic light up pumpkin on the front porch and a bowl of sweets out for them to help themselves too... 

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Sunday.

Up around nine, after a luxurious lie in, so nice to wake up when the alarm would go off, turn over and go back to sleep. 

We got decent and went over to the centre to clean and fetch certain bits back that we'd left over there. We left some bits so the place has a bit of Halloween cheer there for the oldies lunch on Tuesday. 

After that a relaxed day, chilling and watching old movies that we love watching at this time of year, including the new Haunted Mansion movie again as it is very good and very true to the actual ride at Disney. 

Monday.

Kev put Jack outside ( the big white pumpkin) and cut the real one! 

We put the gorgeous banners up that Karen made us. 

I did a bit of online shopping ( as you do) for bits and bobs that are now finally reduced for next Halloween... Lol, I'm like the Mayor in Nightmare Before Christmas, there's only 365 days left till next time, we need to plan! 

We put the pumpkin spice wax melts we got from Lush in the warmers and brewed some lovely pumpkin spiced chai latte that we got from Bird and Blend last week... 

All ready, and relax... 

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Saturday.

It was lovely to wake up at our own pace instead. We got up and got dressed, had breakfast, not rushing, then went over to the centre and started adding decorations to the place. We took the booze and food over, so one of us stayed over there at all times to make sure none of it "walked" as you can't tell who is coming in and out of the place. 

Anyhow we came to ready, me and Charlotte first then we let Kev come over to get ready after. We had only a vague idea who was coming as only a couple had actually replied. As it turned out we only had two who didn't come, we had invited 26, two couldn't make it because they couldn't bring the dog which we knew about previously so we had deleted them off the list, the maybes we considered as not coming. Those that simply didn't reply won't be invited again. But 18 is a good number and it was great fun, Karen, Scott and Jen, Liz's little one and her partner dressed up. Charlotte wore something Halloween related, so it was all good. I think everyone had a good time. I know we did... The quiz was well received and it nearly went to a dance off to decide the winner, lol... 

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Friday.

Woken up by the doorbell going off at 7.15 am made us both jump and Kev bravely went to door, nobody there. We were puzzled as to what it was until Ian bought the shopping. He then told us that there was a power cut. That would mean when it came back on it would chime. Phew! Mystery solved.

We went to Bridgeford to M&S to get the food as we couldn't get a Sainsbury's delivery slot so we split it, food first, came home, then back out to get the booze and other drinks. 

Lauren was in there shopping and kindly helped us by giving us a lift home, what a blessing! 

Kev started putting the outside decorations up. Not all, Grim will go up last as if its wet weather he won't stay upright. So fingers crossed he will be able to go up tomorrow. 

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Thursday. 

A wet miserable day. But we needed to get a few bits for the party that we can't get from here. While we were there we decided to track down the inflatable monsters in the city centre. We found all of one bar one, which is way out down by the island near the BBC studios. Not far if you're in a car, too far on foot with mobility issues. Plus it's just another set of tentacles, which they have at the corner house. They really look cool, and apparently they light up! I think you can see it but during the day not so much. 

I've had a cold on and off since I had that jab and my lenses were playing up so we got what we needed and headed home. Kev put the haunted swing together and started putting a few bits outside like the hanging basket etc. 

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Wednesday.

Wash day so up fairly early. I did a few things I needed to including some for the party on Saturday. 

I'm watching the Let's get Spooky classes this week by Dyan Reaveley so Im doing pages for that as well as my dyalog. 

Charlotte popped over for a bit this afternoon, after taking Dorothy for her hospital appointment. So we had a natter and a coffee or two ( as you do). 

We were both fancying a chip shop tea, so Kev went down to the village ( he can get there and back quicker without me!) And I had chips and pineapple fritter with curry sauce. Haven't had that in ages and it was really good... I always think if you have what you are craving now and again it doesn't hurt. And the beauty is, even though there was loads, I just had the amount I wanted knowing Kev would finish the rest. Made it a nice treat. Well, after all we are on holiday from work this week! 

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Friday.

The rain woke up sweeping over the bungalow. A real deluge. Lots of roads flooded. Tollerton was a no go in lots of places. 

So we stayed in at home. I got a few things finished. I was waiting on some stamps ( what, more, I hear you cry!) Yes, ones from stamping bella. Mortisha and Gomez which are very cute, and for me very useful. Sadly they'll be delivered tomorrow so I won't get chance to play with them until Monday... Boo... 

Saturday.

Extremely busy in the shop, with endless queues. I was watching a new cashier that's come from Wilkos. Very good of work to employ some of those that were affected by their shutting. 

We got out and made the bus, although it was close because I was a bit late out. 

We had to go for the Cotgrave bus as we didn't think the 33 would be running. It was, but it was late so, we stuck with the Cotgrave.

I was beyond tired after that kind of a day, plus my sleep wasn't good the night before, mainly down to Willow, who insists ( at the moment) to coming right up to my face during the night to wake me up for fuss. Then lies on my legs and goes back to sleep, while I'm then awake and usually overthinking as I do. I remember conversations and pick them apart for hidden meanings. Part of my nature is to read too much into what's said, and because I have trust issues I always question what said to me vs what is meant. I can poke holes in anyone's story, believe me. You always have to remember that people will only tell you as much as they want you know, not the whole picture. And being an overthinker means you look for the real truth. So I went to bed early to catch up ready for work on Sunday.

Sunday.

Weather was a bit better, just cold. We went to work and it wasn't a bad day. We had to close early again for more work on the building. It wasn't easy, but the Sunday team cracked it. 

Got home and Charlotte popped over so we had a nice relaxed evening. 

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Thursday.

We nipped into town really quickly to take that hoodie back. I got my money back. The only had white hoodies left with Jack on, and as you know I never wear white! Lol... 

The weather was setting in for dreadful so we got what we wanted for dinner and caught the bus back. There was a lot of work going on in the square for the Christmas set up. It doesn't seem five minutes since the beach was getting put up... 

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Wednesday. 

Wash day. 

Postie bought my wig for Halloween and some baubles for the tree. 

My arm hurts from the covid jab, but my cold has cleared up. Kev has a lump where his went in and she drew blood, so that shows how quick they were being. I've just taken paracetamol and ibuprofen to help. 

I prepped more pages in my dyalog.

Later on when Charlotte came round we dug out an old favourite movie for this time of year Practical Magic ( the books good too, if you can find it) I remember going to the cinema to see it, and coming out wishing for crazy aunts who make midnight margaritas in blenders! My favourite line is "being normal rather denotes a lack of courage"

It's nice to unearth some favourite movies now and then. And the run up to Halloween is the perfect time to cosy up and do so...