Busy shopping day in town. Various bits and bobs for the party. Bits for the costumes, some snacks etc.
We met Sue and Pete for lunch at the Slug and Lettuce, our go to lunch place. The foods great as is the service and there's no loud music so we can chat easily and have a catch up and a laugh which we do in copious amounts.
Sue and I have a wine ( red!) But it's Jam Shed Shiraz and is so lovely...
We were discussing several topics and it made me realise how little I mean to some people really. It's all about them and what they need, it's always been the same, I'm useful to them until I either set boundaries, or expect something from them for a change. Then they disappear into the ether. But, no matter, so long as I know that and don't expect any different then I'm good, but, having said that my new motto should be "stop crossing oceans for people who won't cross a puddle for me"... And if you think I need you, I don't... I've got by with a lot less people by my side. You might think you've "got one up on me" but all you're doing is losing a person who would've been in your corner when most wouldn't. Don't mistake my kindness for weakness...
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